On The Perfect Partner

What do I look for in the perfect person? Absolutely nothing, because the perfect person doesn’t exist. I know what some of you are thinking. That’s a steaming pile of horse manure because my partner’s perfect. No she’s not, but she’s...

On The Harm Of Self Harm

I like to think that I don’t shy away from the tough topics. If there’s something I don’t talk about, it’s likely that I just don’t want to, and not that I’m afraid of offending anyone. There are exceptions of course. There are things I don’t like to dwell on because...

On Dating An INFJ

Let me start off by saying that I haven’t been 100% won over by personality tests. I don’t think that the entire human population can be neatly fit into distinct categories. However, I do believe it’s possible that people can be born with a set of innate qualities...

The Single Life

I just heard a collective groan and I know what you’re thinking. This is going to be another case of sour grapes. For your information, I happen to know that those grapes are pretty darned sweet. At other points in my life I’ve enjoyed the hell out of those grapes....

On Worth

I used to think that a measure of one’s worth was a grand thing…some great spectacle that you’ve managed to leave behind after you’re gone. I used to believe that it meant having your name etched into the history books…or at least having...

On Monogamy & Commitment

There’s been a lot of talk lately about monogamy and commitment, and a lot of people who don’t seem to understand that the two are not the same. How on earth can that be? Let’s take a look at definitions shall we. Monogamy is defined as ‘the practice or condition of...