Category: Thoughts

On The Harm Of Self Harm

I like to think that I don’t shy away from the tough topics. If there’s something I don’t talk about, it’s likely that I just don’t want to, and not that I’m afraid of offending anyone. There are exceptions of course. There are...

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On Gay/Straight Friendships

I’m a gay woman. I’ve rebelled against it, finally accepted it, and moved on. I’m in no way out of the closet, but there are people who know. One of the things I’ve noticed over the years is that it can sometimes be awkward...

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On Dating An INFJ

Let me start off by saying that I haven’t been 100% won over by personality tests. I don’t think that the entire human population can be neatly fit into distinct categories. However, I do believe it’s possible that people can be...

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On Worth

I used to think that a measure of one’s worth was a grand thing…some great spectacle that you’ve managed to leave behind after you’re gone. I used to believe that it meant having your name etched into the...

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On Monogamy & Commitment

There’s been a lot of talk lately about monogamy and commitment, and a lot of people who don’t seem to understand that the two are not the same. How on earth can that be? Let’s take a look at definitions shall we. Monogamy is...

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On Love

Many people question what love is. It’s a feeling…yes, that’s all I have for you. I can’t explain it any better than anyone who has truly felt it. I believe that it is something deep, that exists in your...

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On Relationships

Why is it that we always try to put our best foot forward at the start of any relationship? Logically, it’s a ploy that’s doomed to failure. Imagine the disappointment of finding that your knight in shining armor is...

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