On Possibly Living With Asperger’s Syndrome

I have a high incidence of mental illness in my family. Yes, you may now insert jokes about already knowing that here. The point is, it’s always something I’ve been concerned about. No one wants to know that there’s a ticking time bomb in their head just waiting to go...

On The Harm Of Self Harm

I like to think that I don’t shy away from the tough topics. If there’s something I don’t talk about, it’s likely that I just don’t want to, and not that I’m afraid of offending anyone. There are exceptions of course. There are things I don’t like to dwell on because...

On Gay/Straight Friendships

I’m a gay woman. I’ve rebelled against it, finally accepted it, and moved on. I’m in no way out of the closet, but there are people who know. One of the things I’ve noticed over the years is that it can sometimes be awkward dealing with straight female friends, from...

On Dating An INFJ

Let me start off by saying that I haven’t been 100% won over by personality tests. I don’t think that the entire human population can be neatly fit into distinct categories. However, I do believe it’s possible that people can be born with a set of innate qualities...

On Worth

I used to think that a measure of one’s worth was a grand thing…some great spectacle that you’ve managed to leave behind after you’re gone. I used to believe that it meant having your name etched into the history books…or at least having...

On Monogamy & Commitment

There’s been a lot of talk lately about monogamy and commitment, and a lot of people who don’t seem to understand that the two are not the same. How on earth can that be? Let’s take a look at definitions shall we. Monogamy is defined as ‘the practice or condition of...